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Women for Afghan Women It’s difficult for us here in the US to imagine what it means to be a woman in Afghanistan, a country where women are widely viewed as the property of men and as such can be raped, tortured, sold, traded, enslaved, trafficked, murderedall with impunity. Our Family Guidance Centers in Kabul, Mazar and Kapisa are filled with women and girlschildren reallywho have been subjected to all these horrors and have little if any recourse to law. Just last night we rescued an 11 year old girl whose parents sold her to a man for $20,000. Her 17 year old sister is also in our care. Six years ago, she had been sold to a blind cleric, who beat her constantly. When she finally escaped and got to us, the court returned her to her husband after he promised to stop the beatings. The fact that she had been sold did not enter into the verdict. Now she is back with us: the cleric failed to keep his word. We’re also trying to help three sisters who were raped by their father. Although their mother has verified their story of sexual abuse, they are being held in the juvenile detention centerrevictimizeduntil they can “prove” the charges. That means until they can prove they have not committed adultery! These cases reflect a version of sharia law, the very body of “law” about to be imposed in an area of Pakistan if a new agreement between that government and the Taliban is signed. When applied by extremists, easily misinterpreted sharia is less a religious mandate than the lynchpin of a strategy for maintaining absolute power by keeping half the population on its knees--rather like slaveholders in the States, for whom the Bible was a tool of slavers who enforced slavery by naming it the law of God. The United States progressed from slavery to President Obama. How do we progress from women who are property and without rights to women who are respected as human beings? Certainly not by giving up. Certainly not by expecting deep and lasting change in a few years. Not by arming the militias or negotiating with the Taliban. We get there over decades and with patience, not by military means alone, but by heeding the immediate needs of the people, which have been largely ignored for 8 years. By demanding a government in Afghanistan that is free of corruption. Afghans desperately want this. By giving people work so they can support their families and aren’t forced by dire poverty into the arms of welcoming Taliban. By building schools for girls, by developing public health, especially for women, by promoting the rule of law throughout the country. By making sure that a portion of the funding allocated for Afghanistan finds its way to the children begging on the streets, to the women who turn to prostitution because they have no place to live, who die in childbirth in greater numbers than anywhere on earth because there is no doctor for them or because they are too young to bear children. The Afghan people do not want the Taliban. They want these things. If we waste more time before helping them as they need to be helped, we hurt them and we hurt ourselves. And we will surely come to regret our foolish mistakes once again. |
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